Do you love your cock?.

​When I speak to men about how they masturbate, I often notice a recurring theme regarding the way they touch themselves.

Many men will masturbate with the mindset that they want to get something from their cock. They want an orgasm, they want an ejaculation, they want to climax and be finished.

In a sense, they're taking pleasure from their cock. Treating their cock like it has a job to do, figuratively (and literally) beating it out of their cock. And, if it doesn't do it's job, if it doesn't give them what they want, men get frustrated and upset with their cock.

But, what if, rather than taking something from your cock, you gave to it instead?
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I will often tell men to change their mindset around masturbation, to think of it as giving pleasure to their cock, to their body, as opposed to taking pleasure from it. This way of self-pleasuring can allow for more awareness of sensations and can be quite nourishing.

Instead of getting upset if your cock doesn't give you what you want, you're able to give to it and let it be filled up with pleasure. You allow it to receive from you. This is how you can love your cock.