Cam Fraser
  • About
  • Programs
  • Podcast
  • Blog
  • Appointment
  • Shop
  • Media

The Fox and the Grapes.

10/28/2021

1 Comment

 
Our society holds expectations and judgements about sex, which creates sex-related biases. One example is the sexual over perception bias, whereby men are more likely to overestimate a woman's sexual interest (Bendixen, 2014).

However, even though men have a tendency to think that women are more interested in them than they really are, there are instances where men falsely infer a lack of intent about sexual interest.

The following Aesopian fable gives one possible explanation as to why men may underperceive sexual interest:

Driven by hunger, a fox tried to reach some grapes hanging high on the vine but was unable to, although he leaped with all his strength. As he went away, the fox remarked, “Oh, you aren't even ripe yet! I don't need any sour grapes.”

Rather than admit his failure to reach the grapes, the fox rationalises that they are not really desirable. Similarly, a man who thinks he has struck out with a woman may attempt to save face by saying, "She wasn't interested in me anyway," even though she actually was interested (Luo & Zhang, 2009).

This may be especially true for a man who expects women to be sexually uninterested in him, which can be part of the belief in the sexual double standard, wherein men are lauded for sexual activity while women are derided for it.

No doubt a sexual double standard exists. But, this pervasive belief can result in a confirmation bias such that people tend to notice information that confirms the double standard and fail to notice information that refutes it (Marks & Fraley, 2006).

Being aware of your own cognitive biases regarding sexuality is so important for challenging societal narratives and learning how to communicate more effectively with your current or potential sexual partner.
Picture
1 Comment
SELF denied Holy Warrior for Jesus Holy Trinity
11/4/2021 06:19:56 am

https://www.instagram.com/lone_corpse_123 , GAB is an alternative to Twitter - https://gab.com/lone_corpse_123 , jeffreydavidmorris on Parler.com.


global extermination by 2025 - It's gonna be a literal, human incomprehensible global bloodbath massacre & not even the word nightmare nor Crime's against humanity can scratch the surface.


"Covid 19 does not exist documentary" by Middle Eastern (who loves USA, FORMER Muslim, FORMER Atheist & just simply isn't religious but is NOT a hater) documentary film maker, Sheikh Murad, https://www.bitchute.com/video/VJmvdgskiq1U and https://www.bitchute.com/video/fHRXrt1hDrg1. https://gab.com/Saint_Murad. https://rumble.com/c/Murad.


Those behind 09/11/20021 attack's in New York, USA re: the 3,000 people who were JUST going to & being amidst thereof their daily vocational employment work; Barbara Honegger, Author, Researcher and Public Speaker, is the Creator of the video "Behind the Smoke Curtain" investigating the events at the Pentagon on 9/11 - Email: bshonegg@gmail.com, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tjJO8Cv7Vg and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fvJ8nFa5Qk


Judy Mikovits a former associate of Anthony Stephen Fauci who worked along side him BEFORE she really SELF deemed what he was doing was (?), OH SO WRONG in so many way's & on so many level's so she 'bounced' (as we say from the streets), she chose her own more safer independent path. WATCH THE BANNED VIDEO PLANDEMIC, Plague of Corruption - https://drjudyamikovits.com/ and https://plaguethebook.com/ and WARNS FAUCI MAY RELEASE MORE DEADLY BIOWEAPONS ON THE WORLD - https://www.bitchute.com/video/ShzOWbG8llO2/


Stephanie Savell, (why DOD issues dirty paper's to those of the branches that appear 'broken', thus, why homeless Vet's can't get services, misc because their blacklisted) anthropologist & is co-director of the Costs of War Project at Brown University's Watson Institute for International and Public Affairs. Email: stephanie_savell@brown.edu, costsofwar@brown.edu, Website: http://watson.brown.edu/costsofwar


Nancy MacLean, you can web search her name & book title & you should find it; Author of example: “Democracy in Chains”, American historian, “Duke” Professor – Email: nancy.maclean@duke.edu


Dr. Judy Wood knows alot about & of 09/11/2001, Email: lisajudy@nctv.com, her website: http://www.drjudywood.com.


Amelia Kenyon, ‘Nurses Against Mandatory Vaccines’ - Email: admin@namv.org, admin@professional-education-services.com & ak@ameliakenyon.com, her website: http://ameliakenyon.com and https://professional-education-services.com/


what is 'project dragonfly'; < The Church & Vatican, centuries - to date are / is (understatedly) evil CORRUPT! DON'T be fooled! And NOT what 'it' was intended nor suppose to have been per / via 'Holy ground'. DHS & FEMA to say the LEAST, telling the clergy, "YOU KEEP THEM IN CHECK, MISC ELSE OR WE'LL DO IT FOR YOU!"); It has been reported that 28,000-100.000 pastors have been recruited by FEMA/DHS, as part of the Clergy Response Team.


The Clergy Response Team has been briefed on their purpose in the event of civil upheaval where the people refuse to obey the laws that are implemented in the times of crisis in the United States. Members of the clergy response team have been told that they are to encourage their congregations to obey the authorities in the event of Martial law, and possible forced population relocations. The clergy response team has been encouraged to use Romans 13 in the bible as inspiration for abiding and obeying extreme laws in times of major emergency in the United States. https://groundzeromedia.org/9-27-18-dragonfly/


Deborah Tavares, (she lives in Sonoma County - Northern California), & is a activist with a research team – Email: NoSmartMeters@gmail.com, Her website: http://www.stopthecrime.net


Author: Paul L. Williams book, Killing the Planet (Earth). https://books.google.com/books/about/Killing_the_Planet.html?id=u6qexQEACAAJ&source=kp_book_description


Elana Freeland is a investigator on various societal, misc thing's that affect us all USA - globally, & her email address: stargirth@gmail.com, ElanaFreeland@Protonmail.com, & should be at the bottom of the front web page of her website, just scroll downward to the bottom - https://www.elanafreeland.com.


And American interdisciplinary scientist: James Marvin Herndon, http://www.nuclearplanet.com.

Reply



Leave a Reply.

    Cam Fraser

    This blog aims to discuss all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.

    Archives

    May 2022
    April 2022
    March 2022
    February 2022
    January 2022
    December 2021
    November 2021
    October 2021
    September 2021
    August 2021
    July 2021
    June 2021
    May 2021
    April 2021
    March 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021

    Categories

    All

    RSS Feed

SESSIONS

Sex Coaching
Tantric Yoga
​
Products

BUSINESS

About
Privacy
Refunds

Support

Contact
Testimonials
Events
Picture
Picture
Picture
Kama Wellness is on Whadjuk land. We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of country across Western Australia.
© COPYRIGHT KAMA WELLNESS 2020.
​ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
  • About
  • Programs
  • Podcast
  • Blog
  • Appointment
  • Shop
  • Media