Man Myths: Understanding Male Sexuality
with Cam Fraser

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A 6-week course for women who have sex with men.
​Deepen your relationship with men and understand male sexuality.

Learn why men behave the way they do and what you can do to connect more with them.
You can help your partner open up, be more vulnerable, be a better lover and ultimately experience more pleasure together.

I'm Ready!

Applications are now open! Click the button above
​to join the January 2021 course.

"The beauty a woman radiates when she has accepted
herself and likes men causes an authentic
​curiosity about who she is." - Alison Armstrong

Men are simple, right? Can they really be that hard to understand?

According to popular magazines and websites, men are either "shockingly simple" or there will be things that you'll "never understand." Contrary to what you may have heard, men aren't simple, superficial, surface-level creatures whose actions are dictated by their cock. Yes, men are more complex. And, yes, you can learn to understand them.

Expand your pleasure with your partner!

"Ladies, men are easy!" You may have heard this statement from your friends, your favourite TV shows and movies, or from one of the many online magazine websites. In fact, contrary to popular opinion, men aren't easy or simple.

I'm not here to deal in universalities. I want to offer you some important information about the messages we all receive regarding the way men are conditioned to behave, both in and out of the bedroom, as well as the myths about masculinity that these messages create.

I also want to offer you a collection of exercises, practices, activities and strategies to communicate better with your current or future sexual partner, boyfriend, husband or man in your life. These can all be added to your communication to help you expand your pleasure with your partner.

Get over 10 years worth of knowledge condensed into 6 weeks and
take your relationship to the next level.

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"We are so happy, content and in love. You were such a big part of that. Our sex life continues to flourish thanks to your techniques and skills. Honestly the best thing we have done for our relationship​"

- Anonymous, Australia

I truly believe that by learning about you partner, from his conditioning to his anatomy,
​you will improve and transform your relationship and well-being!

In this course, you will learn:

• The biggest myths about masculinity and male pleasure
• All the steps and techniques for helping him lasting longer
• How expanding your sexual experiences can change your life
• What is hindering his capacity for more pleasure
• The three major nerves that facilitate male orgasm and how to activate them
• How to utilise your sexual energy and magnetism
• What to say and do to support his sexual exploration
• Why it is important for both of you that he shifts from gratification to pleasure
• How to give your partner more pleasure so he takes your pleasure seriously
• How to handle erectile dysfunction and love a soft cock
• And much, much more...

Imagine how it would feel for you and your partner to share
deep pleasure and intimacy together, how it would affect your life.

This 6 week course is designed to help you:

• Learn about male sexuality and men's experiences of pleasure
• Utilise your sexual energy and develop your magnetism as a woman
• Cultivate confidence in yourself and your sexual abilities
• Become a sexual leader both in and out of the bedroom
• Learn to help your partner separate ejaculation and orgasm
• Understand your partner's emotions and anxieties - Both sexually and in general
• Overcome his sexual concerns - Including performance anxiety, premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction
• Experience heightened states of pleasure with your partner
• Communicate better with your sexual partner about sexual desires and fantasies
• Become a better lover and share expanded pleasure with your sexual partner

This course is designed to be a condensed, comprehensive guide to transform your relationship with men. It is a 3-part process, consisting of deconstructing messages about masculinity, debunking myths about male sexuality, and moving forward with this newfound knowledge with the men in your life. You will get step-by-step instructions to learn how to help your partner open up more, both emotionally and sexually, as well as how to connect with his body and invite him to connect intimately with your's. This course will offer you valuable insights about men's psychology and how to deeply connect sexually with a partner to explore these heightened orgasmic states together.

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Unpopular Opinion: Men Think Women's Pleasure Is More Important Than Their Own

Before you ask me what planet I've been inhabiting, let me clarify. There's a difference between "gratification" and "pleasure." Generally, men's attitudes towards heterosexual sex emphasize perceived female "pleasure" and male "gratification," typified by "locker room" talk. Having been a man in these locker rooms, I say "perceived pleasure" because these men generally don't know/care how much pleasure the woman experiences, so long as they have the perception that she is enjoying herself.

It's evident in the language used, "I made her cum this many times" or "She screamed this loudly." Rarely do these men have conversations with their sexual partners. They're also prone to over emphasize their partner's pleasure when talking to other men. These same men also disregard and diminish their own "pleasure" in lieu of their sexual "gratification." There's no talk among them about how enjoyable or pleasurable the sexual experience was, how it made them feel, or what sensations arose. They simply focus on being "gratified" while also thinking that they're amazing lovers able to give women all this "pleasure." This narrative, fostered by "locker room" talk, does a disservice to heterosexual couples. Men think they're "pleasuring" women while also thinking that their own pleasure is just limited to sexual "gratification," that they aren't able to experience anything more than a quick climax.

Many men perpetuate this narrative by focusing on sexual "gratification" and not exploring their own sexual "pleasure." Whether from porn, or Hollywood, or music videos, the story that women writhe in ecstasy while men thrust mechanically needs to be challenged. Men need to start exploring and taking responsibility for their pleasure, not simply seek sexual gratification.

Meet your instructor: Cam Fraser

Sex Coach, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher

During my late teenage years, I had an uneasy relationship with my sexuality. Marred by insecurities and perceived inadequacies, I had difficulty fully connecting with my sexual partners. I relied heavily on alcohol to inhibit my fears regarding the expression of my sexual desires and cannot recall many times when I was sober during a sexual experience with another person.

I was overly concerned about my sexual “performance,” to the point where that anxiety affected my ability to get and maintain an erection when with a sexual partner or to last for a satisfying period of time – of course, the alcohol didn’t help with this. To compensate, I focused my energy almost exclusively on oral and digital sex, thinking that if I could make up for my lack of penetrative sex by giving my partners pleasure and orgasms by other means, it would take some of pressure off me to “perform.” In a way, this worked. But in other ways, it didn’t.

I wasn’t dealing with the cause of my insecurities and dysfunction, I was applying a band-aid solution that temporarily masked the problem. This resulted in me actively avoided sexual experiences and unceremoniously rejecting the advances of sexual partners. Eventually, this led to mental health issues.

Overcoming these things - becoming comfortable with my sexuality and sexual energy, becoming a confident yet vulnerable lover, becoming clear about my desires and experiences - took time. It wasn't a "one pill quick fix" or "one weird trick" solution peddled by many "authorities" on sexuality. It took work. I studied psychology, philosophy, massage, Yoga, Tantra (both Classical and Neo), sexology and sacred sexuality in order to better understand my body, my mind, and my sexual self. I learned from many teachers, from many different traditions. And, it took me several years before I felt comfortable teaching others.

As American writer Richard Bach famously said, “We teach best what we most need to learn.” This was certainly true for me. I most needed to learn sexual education and healing, which is what I taught. As professor Howard G. Hendricks has said, “You teach what you know, but you reproduce what you are.” This has been the current phase of my journey, practicing what I preach and fully embodying, fully living the knowledge I've acquired.

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Course Outline

Week 1:

• Messages about men, masculinity and male sexuality
• How our language impacts the way we think about men's bodies
  
• What the mainstream media does to limit men's expression
  
• Understanding the "Act Like A Man" Box
  
• The influence that the "Act Like A Man" Box has on sex
• Narratives perpetuated by pornography
• Living in Fantasyland and what that means for you
  

Week 2:

• Messages about men, masculinity and male sexuality
• Men's entitlement and how they act upon it
• Gratification vs Pleasure vs Performance
• The impact of men's and women's beauty standards on men
• Consent, boundaries and respect
  
• Cave man sex - stop having sex to survive
• 10 beliefs about men​

Week 3:

• Myths about men, masculinity and male sexuality
• Men's sex drive and couple's mismatched libido
• Deconstructing superficiality and selfishness
• Is porn ruining your relationship?
• Who is doing the desiring and initiating sex?
• Sexual rejection and being turned down by a woman
• Always saying "yes" to sex

Week 4:

• Myths about men, masculinity and male sexuality
• Telling him to "Be a Man"
• Men's sexual response - get it up, get it in, get off
• Erections, erectile dysfunction and genital non-concordance 
• Penetration is everything
• Ejaculation vs orgasm -  same, but different
• Premature ejaculation - survival of the fastest
• Aftercare and post sex affection​

Week 5:

• Moving forward with men - overcoming messages and myths
• Guest Speaker - Alex Grendi, Men's Sex Coach
• Managing men's sexual anxieties
• How to communicate healthily and develop sexual empathy
• Transforming sexual empathy into intimacy​ with vulnerability
• Male anatomy of arousal: Perineum and frenulum stimulation for multiple orgasms
• Introduction to prostate stimulation: Massage, play and prostate orgasms
• Developing curiosity together around pleasure

Week 6:

• Moving forward with men - overcoming messages and myths
• Creating safety in a sexual context to help you partner open up
• Sexual energy cultivation, transmutation and sublimation
• Ejaculation retention as a couples practice
  
• Fundamentals of sexual polarity
• Female anatomy of arousal: Vulva and vagina
• Sexual compatibility and sex positions
• How to be sexually spontaneous, creative and flexible with your partner​​

Plus:

• Daily/Weekly practices, exercises and activities to prompt reflection and introspection
• Daily/Weekly partnered practices exercises and activities to encourage exploration
• Q+A chat forum with Cam

Bonuses:

• Erotic Tantric massage techniques to give your partner expanded pleasure​
• Panel discussion with diverse group of men

The amazing value you're getting
from Man Myths:

• 6 transformational digital training units via Teachable
• 12+ hours of detailed video
• Super valuable content from Expert Guest Speakers
  
• Specifically written, never before released content
• Weekly home assignments and personal practices
• Discussion with a panel of men
• BONUS - Access to hours of relevant video content
• BONUS - Access to unique written material​

Price: USD$650

Registration is now open!

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Frequently Asked Questions

I don't have a partner, can I still do this course?

​This course is both for women who have a sexual partner(s) and women who are single. You will be given solo practices and will also learn partnered exercises to use with your future sexual partner, whether that is a casual or long-term relationship. Not only that, you will also learn how to communicate your sexual desires and improve other areas of your life, improving your confidence and helping you attract a partner.

How much time do I need to set aside to do this course?

​This course does require you to put in the effort to practice as well as watch the video content. There is about an hour of video content each week and I recommend setting aside a minimum of 10 minutes per day for practices.

When does the course start?

Registration opens December 20th, 2020. This course starts on January 20th, 2020.

What do I get from the course?

Upon registration, you will be directed to the Man Myths Welcome Page. ​There, you'll have access to the 6 weeks worth of content via Teachable, broken down into 6 units. Each unit contains 1-2 hours of video training. You'll also have access to additional written and video resources. You will also receive bonus videos about massage and connecting with your partner at the end of the course.

What if I don’t have time to go through the course right now?

​No worries, you have lifetime access to the course content so can go through the course at your own pace. If you have any questions you want addressed, you can email them to me and I will answer them.

How long do I have access to the course for?

​After purchasing the course, you have lifetime access to all the units and the video recordings. There is heaps of valuable information in this course so you will probably need to review, revisit and re-watch the content several times.

Are there payment plans available?

Due to current situations, ​I am offering a 3-month interest free payment plan.

I’m lesbian/not interested in men, is this course suitable for me?

​Probably not! This course is open to anyone who identifies as a woman and has sex with men. Content is oriented toward heterosexual couples and understanding cisgender male sexuality.

Do you offer refunds?

​Due to the digital nature of this course, and the low price offered, no refunds will be offered for this course. My work is tried-and-tested, it is backed by scientific research and therapeutic application. It is effective if you do the work.

Can you guarantee results?

​The more you put in, the more you will get out. If you do the work, commit to following guidance, and take responsibility for your journey, you will transform your sex life and your life as a whole. This is your own unique process and I've ensured you have everything you could possibly need to make this work.

Why should I purchase the course instead of finding a book with this information?

Because there isn't simply one book with all this knowledge. I've condensed over 10 years worth of studying, learning and practicing into this 6-week course. This is also a guided course with an experienced instructor to answer any questions you may have along the way. No book will offer you this.

I really want to take this course, but I don’t want to spend the money.

​From experience both facilitating and participating in courses like this for many years, I know that financial investment is directly linked to energetic investment. The more you pay for a course, the more time and effort you will dedicate to it. This course is extremely reasonably priced. But, if you think the price is too high, I suggest reflecting on how much you're willing to invest in yourself to take your relationship to the next level. This course contains many powerful tools and strategies that can greatly improve your life.

It is worth continuing to be...

• Unfulfilled by your sexual experiences?
• Worried about whether your partner will last long enough?
• In the dark about your partner's sexual needs and desires?

Enrolment for Man Myths is currently now open!

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Enrolment for Man Myths is now open!

​Be sure to check out my Instagram page and podcast on YouTube to continue your growth between now and January when the next group begins.

 Registration for the next Man Myths course is now open! The course will begin on January, 25th, 2021. Use the buttons below to sign up for the course either with a one-time payment or a PayPal payment plan.

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