On seaon 2, episode 16 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Juliana, the “girl next door” (with a PhD). Dr. Juliana is always up for a down and dirty conversation about sexuality and intimacy. As a credentialed therapist, academic, and a bonafide (s)expert, Dr. Juliana has spent decades counseling and supporting thousands of individuals on their paths to discover and own their sexual agency. Having traversed her own journey through love, loss, motherhood, and the world of academics, Dr. Julianahas come to understand that ownership over one’s own sexuality is the at the foundation of every fulfilled and confident person. She has developed a clear, action-driven method to help people of all backgrounds discover their own path to authenticity through holistic sexuality.  Dr. Juliana is a certified by Betty Dodson as a BodySex Workshop facilitator and offers tons of tips, insight and support through coaching, therapy, online courses and in person retreats for becoming your own (s)expert over at                         dr-juliana.com. We chat about working with men, the differences between being a man and woman in this space, and how we can get men to open up to talk about sex.

Key Points:
- Dr. Juliana shares some of her history working with men
- Getting comfortable talking about sex
- Men working with men vs men working with women
- Private vs public work
- Specialising and collaborating 
- Celebrating sexual wins
- Educating and problem solving
- Healthy sexuality impacting our lives
- How can women make men feel safe to be vulnerable

Relevant links:
Dr. Juliana's Instagram: @drjulianahauser
Dr. Juliana's Facebook:  Dr. Juliana

On episode 15 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He is author of the blog Sex and Psychology and the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller is a much sought-after voice in the media on sexuality research and education. He has been interviewed by The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and CNN, and he has appeared on dozens of international radio, podcast, and television programs. We discuss his research about fantasies and particularly about what men fantasize about, as well as how to healthy explore your desires.

Key Points:
- Dr. Lehmiller introduces his research
- The most common fantasies
- Differences between men's and women's fantasies
- Men's fantasies and pressure to be a certain way
- Shame about our fantasies
- The origin of sexual fantasies
- Underlying emotional needs
- Dr. Lehmiller's dial analogy
- Advice for exploring sexual fantasies

Relevant Links:
Dr. Lehmiller's website: www.lehmiller.com

On episode 14 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Taylor Johnson about sexual energy sublimation. Taylor is a sex educator and intimacy coach who helps men master their sex lives in an integrated way. Our philosophies about masculinity and sexuality seem to align and so Taylor and I had a great conversation about the practical elements of sexual energy transmutation and sublimation.

If you've ever been interested in learning how to work with sexual energy and use it to create and manifest other things, this is the episode for you.

Key points:- Taylor's personal reflections
- Ejaculation, ejaculation, ejaculation
- NoFap vs Sublimation
- The difference between transmutation and sublimation
- No woo-woo advice for moving sexual energy
- Change the way you masturbate
- The role of porn in sublimation practices
​- Sharing sexual energy with a partner

Relevant links:
Taylor's Instagram @taylorclarkjohnson
Taylor's website - https://www.taylorjohnson.life

On Episode 10 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chatted with depressed Heavy Diesel Mechanic and Male Stripper turned Agency Owner, Gym owner and Holistic Lifestyle Coach, Josh Hardy. Josh lived a life making decisions ruled by fear of not being enough, and self pity from not meeting high standards. He quit his job to pursue his passion in health & fitness, hand built his gym from scratch and is still on a huge journey of personal growth to become a better human, role model and leader. Josh and I recently connected again at a men's group after 15 years of lost contact. As kids, we used to play soccer together and now Josh offers me a fascinating peek behind the curtain into the stripping industry, from the hen's nights and dance shows to the pressure to perform to the insecurities.

Key Points: 
- Josh's beginnings in Stripping
- Reconciling Stripping with a day job 
- Being open, honest and sure of yourself 
- Fitting in in male dominated spaces
​- Fantasy and the popularity of Strippers 
- The emphasising of physical appearance 
- Insecurities in the industry 
- Performance anxiety 

Relevant Links: 
Josh's Instagram - @thejoshuahardy 
Josh's Instagram - @smacademyaus 
Josh's Website - www.smacademy.com.au

On episode 9 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Harris O’Malley. Harris is a dating coach who provides geek dating advice at ‘Paging Dr. NerdLove’, as well as on Kotaku and elsewhere. Harris’s impressive work has been featured on Nightline, Vice, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The BBC, The New Yorker, The New York Post, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many others!

Key Points:
- Harris' journey from pick up artist to dating coach
- Unlearning pick up artistry bullshit
- The positive sides of the pick up artist community
- Real dating advice for men
- Having a healthy casual sex life
- Models of masculinity
- More practical advice

Relevant Links:
- Harris' Twitter: @DrNerdLove
- Harris' Instagram: @DrNerdLove
- Harris' Facebook: DrNerdLove
- Cam's Instagram - @thecamfraser

In episode 8 of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with wellness wizard Ryan McKenna. Ryan embodies ancient knowledge and wisdom, in unison with modernized teachings and techniques to create alchemic medicine to nourish the mind, body and soul. Fusing together elements of Celtic shamanism, Druidism, Astrology and herbalism to create optimized transformative awakening journeys for high dimensional existence. Ryan specializes in detoxification and regeneration of the physical organs through sacred healing modalities, sacred sexuality, nutritional balancing, fasting, qigong and elemental meditational journeys through ceremonial sound and music therapy. Bringing the body forward into balance and harmony, on a multidimensional level, by clearing stagnation and blockages, releasing toxic belief systems, and creating space within one’s vessel allow new higher frequencies to enter and prepare the soul to ascend into higher realms of consciousness to embody new earth golden age frequencies.

Key Points:
- Ryan's initiation into sacred sexuality teachings
- What does sacred sexuality look like?
- Tantra and Celtic Paganism
- The Divine Masculine and Feminine
- Western esotericism
- Masculine energy and how to cultivate it
- Practical tips for sacred sex

Relevant links:
Ryan's Instagram - @theshamanicleprechaun
Ryan's Website - sacredscotlandtour.com
Cam's Instagram - @thecamfraser