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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Grace Alice. Grace has been a Sex and Relationships Educator for 6 years, and is the author of 'Sex Educated'. She is from Kerry (Ireland), and originally trained as an Occupational Therapist before completing her Masters in Health Promotion, with a focus on sexual health and body image. She is super passionate about playing her part in creating a more sex-positive Ireland, free from shame, stigma and secrecy. Grace is training with the Somatica Institute to become a Sex and Relationships Coach. In 2022, she will be registering as the first Occupational Therpist in Ireland to specialise in sex, intimacy and relationships! The two of us talk about her experience with vaginismus as well as her work as a sex educator. We also discuss body shaming and masculinity and how these relate to teenagers.
Key points: - Grace share about her life and work - Vaginismus and sex education - Talk therapy and bodywork - Sexuality in Ireland - Masculinity and teenage boys - “Gay chicken”: Homophobia and homoeroticism - The lack of nuance in male sexuality - Advertising sexuality work to men Relevant links: Grace’s website: gracealice.com Grace’s book: https://sexualhealthwest.ie/product/sex-educated-by-grace-alice-oshea/ Cam’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Skye Stevenson. Skye is the founder and creative director of Evolved Lovers, Skye works with women and couples and is an approved Awakening Within Relationship & Sexuality Educator, Trauma informed, Internationally certified Holistic Life Coach, Reiki Master with a Diploma in Swedish and Lomi Lomi massage. She has trained with the Wheel of Consent School and calls herself a student for life. Skye specialises in sexual trauma using a wide range of tools from talking sessions, body de-armouring, touch work including yoni massage healing. Skye is well known in teaching Shibari and tantric massage to couples in person and is known to re-awaken one's desire. The two of us talk about sexual exploration, resistance, dominance, boundaries, safety. I ask Skye for a woman’s perspective on these things. We also talk about Skye’s work with erotic bondage and Shibari.
Key Points: - Skye shares some of her story - Curiosity and experimentation - Resistance to sexual exploration - Dominance and limiting beliefs - Asserting boundaries - Creating sexual safety for women - Erotic bondage - Pleasure and pain - Connecting with your partner through Shibari Relevant links: Skye’s website: https://evolvedlovers.com/ Skye’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolved_lovers/ On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jan-Willem van der Heiden. Jan is a warrior coach. He was not a very confident kid. He had low self-esteem, no self-worth, struggled in school and had difficulty making connections with peers. After years of depression, his big brother took him to a boxing school where he met his mentor. Under the tutelage of Shifu Zhao, a 70-year old Chinese boxing and martial legend, Jan cultivated and reshaped himself to face all his fears. For the first time he was able to allow himself to feel the anger, shame and sadness from trauma that had been repressed for so long. It made Jan into the Warrior Coach he is today, coaching and mentoring over 50 men from all across the world. The two of us talk about Jan’s work with men and how he helps them overcome fear by facing it head on via the modality of boxing. We also speak about fear in general and how we can learn from our past. Jan shares about his own past as a professional gamer and what, if anything, he has learned from that. We also discuss finding a healthy mindset and balance with regards to our vices, such as video games and smoking.
Key Points: - Jan introduces himself and his passions - Warrior coaching and fight club - The role of fear in our lives - Jan’s previous life as a professional gamer - Learning from our past - Finding balance with our vices - Having a healthy mindset Relevant links: Jan’s Instagram: @janwillemvanderh Jan’s website: https://www.thewarrior.coach/ Eleanor Hadley is a Sensuality Coach, Sex Educator & Sensual Movement Practitioner. Through 1:1 coaching, group programs, retreats, workshops and speaking, Eleanor is on a mission to help you embody your femininity, enhance your sex-life and elevate your relationships. Eleanor believes that sensuality is the missing key to cultivating deeper connection - with yourself, your body, your pleasure and with your loved ones. She has supported women around the world to finally channel their feminine essence to create super turned on lives of ease and flow. Her clients and students have fallen in love with their bodies once and for all, reclaimed their pleasure, unlocked orgasms, stepped in to their most confident selves and become super sensual. The Sensuality Academy Podcast is where Eleanor shares juicy gems from her own life, stories of clients' success along with tangible techniques to help you discover your sense of self-love, cultivate self-intimacy and boost your self-esteem.
If you’re craving to feel more sensual and more connected - with your body, your sexuality and with your partner - this is the show for you. The two of us talk about tapping into your sensuality through embodied movement as well as how men can hold space for their partner to drop into their eroticism and how women can build confidence in their sensuality to demand that their partner hold space for them. Key Points: Eleanor shares about her work Yoga, femininity, and masculinity Balancing structure with fluidity Resistance to sensual expression Lap dancing for you, not them Sensuality vs Sexuality Externalizing self-worth Demanding that your partner holds space Advice for feeling more confident. Relevant links: Eleanor’s Instagram: @eleanorhadley Eleanor’s website: https://www.eleanorhadley.com/ Cam’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Andrew Eggelton. Andrew is the world's leading authority on Authentic Presenting. He's the creator and visionary behind 'The Eggelton Presenting Method™', a style of Presenting that re-invents the Speakers Experience, elevating it beyond the tropes of old school copy and paste to a deeper, more spiritual experience for both Presenter and Audience. Over 28 years of devotion to his craft of Presenting, from sleeping in the boot of his car so he could afford lessons, to perpetually touring the world running sold out events and retreats, he dared to dream that one day he could not only be World Class, but redefine what World Class looks like. Through a career of TV, Film and Speaking, working with people like Ryan Gosling, Michael J Fox, Peter Jackson and winning multiple TV awards, he devoted most of this career to discovering what 'Just Be You' actually means when Presenting and how to achieve pure authenticity. He transforms Speakers, aiding them to discover a balance of the Head, which is the technical, and the Heart Brain, which is the feeling. He takes them into a world where the space between the words is as potent as the words themselves and when they do speak, their words match the frequency of their Greatness, an audience, connecting, resonating, feeling the impact of each nuance. The two of us talk about what authenticity looks and feels like not only when presenting and speaking but also when it comes to masculinity and sexuality.
Key points: - Andrew shares about his career - “Just be you” vs “fake it until you make it” - Tony Robbins and performance - Not changing state - Speaking in online spaces - Performing masculinity - Overcoming anxiety - Getting into and moving your body - Presence and acceptance - Communicating sexually Relevant links: Andrew’s website: https://www.andreweggelton.com/ Andrew’s Instagram: @andreweggelton Cam’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser |
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserThe intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men, "Men, Sex & Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure. Archives
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