On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I have the pleasure of chatting with Julieta Chiara. Julieta is sex blogger, entrepreneur, and sex toy fanatic. A digital sex nomad, she travels the world full time with her luggage full of sex toys, connecting with folks through her adventures and advocacy for female pleasure, exploring kink, sexual health, and reclaiming your power in pleasure, life, and business. She started her blog in 2017 as a compliment to her studies in human sexuality, and never looked back at a normal life. Working closely with adult brands and having multiple appearances as a writer, podcast guest, and interviewee, her passion has been connecting with her community. Julieta’s work extends far beyond her blog, which is her passion project. She is the CEO & founder of Chiara Collective, her digital media agency for adult brands. Helping position folks in the adult space for success, Julieta says it’s been an honor bringing sex toys to the mainstream. We talk about the sexuality industry and the available career paths. We also discuss what the Tantra community could learn from the BDSM community. We also share ways in which men can explore their sexually submissive and dominant sides.
Julieta shares some of her journey
Sexuality related career pathways
Discovering your authentic sexual self
Sex industry expectations and assumptions
Introducing kink and BDSM
Male submission and surrender
Male dominance and assertiveness
Creating safety to sexually explore
with power play
Tantra and Shibari
Julieta’s Website: www.julietachiara.com
Julieta’s Instagram: @julietachiara
For the first time on The Men, Sex and Pleasure podcast, to kick off season 5, I interview multiple guests. In this episode, I chat with the women from the Clit Talk podcast: Lindsey, Katie and Sugar. Their podcast is all about living a pleasure positive lifestyle. Lindsey, Katie and Sugar have spent the last 150+ episodes interviewing everyone from doctors, sexperts, celebrities and even porn stars. They go out, try all the boundary-pushing sexcapades, confronting and disrupting their shame, then hop on the air to tell all the gritty details. They will try almost anything once. Lindsey is a quick-witted, ball-busting songstress who throughout the show opens herself up to exploring the Kinsey scale, what monogamy means for her and showing up as a woman committed to pleasure whether she is in a relationship or not. Katie is a nurse and life-long Catholic monogamer. Before being on the Clit Talk podcast, she never masturbated, sex hurt and her marriage was suffering from her crippling repression. Now, she’s a new mum, talks about doing it in the butt and is still very much monogamous. Sugar - hilarious and daring - opened her marriage to a committed non-monogamous relationship at the ripe age of 25. She went on to become a leader in the polyamory community and reportedly throws a damn good play party. She shares about all this… unabashedly. In this episode we have a lively discussion about about sex and relationships.
Clit Talk’s Instagram: @clittalkshow
Katie’s Instagram: @imkatieroberts
Lindsey’s Instagram: @linsta_grammy
Sugar’s Instagram: @sugar.sloane
On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Amanda Biccum, an evolutionary coach who pushes against the norm of what is possible in sex, love and relationships. She has spent the last 7 years traveling the world, gaining insight from ancient eastern spiritual practices and studying with various mentors in the fields of Tantra, Yoga, Qigong, Taoism and other embodiment practices. Her background is a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and she blends her studies of East and West to support the balance of the masculine and feminine in personal and group coaching practice. Amanda is a firm believer that embodiment is at the root of true leadership and incorporates years of experience, and the depths of her soul’s personal journey into the work she shares with the world. We talk about her work with men and how being a woman influences that work. We also discuss how women in relationships with men can hold space for them in sexual contexts. Lastly, we explore some ways that men can learn more about the feminine and create safe boundaries.
- Amanada shares about her work with men
- What is “Men’s Work?”
- Single gender and mixed gender containers
- Listening to men’s stories
- Holding space for you partner’s insecurity
- Moving sexual energy with a partner
- Rigidity kills polarity
- Understanding the feminine
- Practice asserting your boundaries
Amanda’s Instagram: @madambiccum
On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dex Parker. Dex is a pansexual, male erotic adult performer and companion. But outside of these labels, he is a human. Just like you and I. Dex describes himself as gentle, receptive, and strong. His missions are erotic creation, connection, and service. Dex is trained in respiratory therapy which compliments his many years spent teaching yoga and movement to create a holistic somatic experience of pleasure, insight, and joy. His work as a creator and companion is founded in a pursuit to experience and give breathe to a more holistic approach to sex work, performing, and services. He believes wholeheartedly that sexuality and spirituality need not be perceived as mutually exclusive. On the contrary, they compliment each other beautifully; and Dex is here to show you how. In his content you will find opportunities to be both aroused and informed: hopefully both. In his virtual and in-person services you will be introduced to a space of safety, empowerment, discovery, and passion.
- Dex shares about his journey
- What is sex work?
- Experiences of a male sex worker
- Erotic content creation
- Alternative expressions of male sexuality
- Discussing pornography
- Advice for exploring your sexuality
Dex’s website: https://www.mrdexparker.com/
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men, "Men, Sex & Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.