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On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Betty Martin. Betty has had her hands on people professionally for over 40 years, first as a Chiropractor and upon retiring from that practice, as a certified Surrogate Partner, Sacred Intimate, and Somatic Sex Educator. Her explorations in somatic-based therapy and practices informed her creation of the framework, The Wheel of Consent®. As part of her work with the School of Consent, Betty travels around the world teaching practitioners how to create empowered agreements in their client sessions, in her highly sought-after training “Like A Pro: The Wheel of Consent for Practitioners.” Originally developed as an offering to teach much-needed consent skills to sex workers and touch providers, this training is now attended by somatic therapists, massage therapists, sexuality educators, medical and health care workers, activists, human resources folks and the spectrum of touch-based professional providers – all of whom complete the training with a clear understanding of how consent starts with our own bodies, and then expands outwards into all forms of human relating, with or without touch. Betty and I talk about her amazing touch- and communication-based framework - The Wheel of Consent® - as well as discuss some specifics of the framework as it relates to men.
Key Points: - Betty shares about her career - The inception of The Wheel of Consent - Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To - The four quadrants - The 3 Minute Game - Learning how to take pleasure - You can’t make someone surrender - Practical advice for men using The Wheel Relevant links: Betty’s website: bettymartin.org The Wheel of Consent website: wheelofconsentbook.com The Wheel of Consent Instagram: @thewheelofconsent
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On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I have the pleasure of chatting with Julieta Chiara. Julieta is sex blogger, entrepreneur, and sex toy fanatic. A digital sex nomad, she travels the world full time with her luggage full of sex toys, connecting with folks through her adventures and advocacy for female pleasure, exploring kink, sexual health, and reclaiming your power in pleasure, life, and business. She started her blog in 2017 as a compliment to her studies in human sexuality, and never looked back at a normal life. Working closely with adult brands and having multiple appearances as a writer, podcast guest, and interviewee, her passion has been connecting with her community. Julieta’s work extends far beyond her blog, which is her passion project. She is the CEO & founder of Chiara Collective, her digital media agency for adult brands. Helping position folks in the adult space for success, Julieta says it’s been an honor bringing sex toys to the mainstream. We talk about the sexuality industry and the available career paths. We also discuss what the Tantra community could learn from the BDSM community. We also share ways in which men can explore their sexually submissive and dominant sides.
Key points: Julieta shares some of her journey Sexuality related career pathways Discovering your authentic sexual self Sex industry expectations and assumptions Introducing kink and BDSM Male submission and surrender Male dominance and assertiveness Creating safety to sexually explore with power play Tantra and Shibari Relevant links Julieta’s Website: www.julietachiara.com Julieta’s Instagram: @julietachiara For the first time on The Men, Sex and Pleasure podcast, to kick off season 5, I interview multiple guests. In this episode, I chat with the women from the Clit Talk podcast: Lindsey, Katie and Sugar. Their podcast is all about living a pleasure positive lifestyle. Lindsey, Katie and Sugar have spent the last 150+ episodes interviewing everyone from doctors, sexperts, celebrities and even porn stars. They go out, try all the boundary-pushing sexcapades, confronting and disrupting their shame, then hop on the air to tell all the gritty details. They will try almost anything once. Lindsey is a quick-witted, ball-busting songstress who throughout the show opens herself up to exploring the Kinsey scale, what monogamy means for her and showing up as a woman committed to pleasure whether she is in a relationship or not. Katie is a nurse and life-long Catholic monogamer. Before being on the Clit Talk podcast, she never masturbated, sex hurt and her marriage was suffering from her crippling repression. Now, she’s a new mum, talks about doing it in the butt and is still very much monogamous. Sugar - hilarious and daring - opened her marriage to a committed non-monogamous relationship at the ripe age of 25. She went on to become a leader in the polyamory community and reportedly throws a damn good play party. She shares about all this… unabashedly. In this episode we have a lively discussion about about sex and relationships.
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Relevant links: Clit Talk’s Instagram: @clittalkshow Katie’s Instagram: @imkatieroberts Lindsey’s Instagram: @linsta_grammy Sugar’s Instagram: @sugar.sloane On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Amanda Biccum, an evolutionary coach who pushes against the norm of what is possible in sex, love and relationships. She has spent the last 7 years traveling the world, gaining insight from ancient eastern spiritual practices and studying with various mentors in the fields of Tantra, Yoga, Qigong, Taoism and other embodiment practices. Her background is a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and she blends her studies of East and West to support the balance of the masculine and feminine in personal and group coaching practice. Amanda is a firm believer that embodiment is at the root of true leadership and incorporates years of experience, and the depths of her soul’s personal journey into the work she shares with the world. We talk about her work with men and how being a woman influences that work. We also discuss how women in relationships with men can hold space for them in sexual contexts. Lastly, we explore some ways that men can learn more about the feminine and create safe boundaries.
Key Points: - Amanada shares about her work with men - What is “Men’s Work?” - Single gender and mixed gender containers - Listening to men’s stories - Holding space for you partner’s insecurity - Moving sexual energy with a partner - Rigidity kills polarity - Understanding the feminine - Practice asserting your boundaries Relevant Links: Amanda’s Instagram: @madambiccum On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dex Parker. Dex is a pansexual, male erotic adult performer and companion. But outside of these labels, he is a human. Just like you and I. Dex describes himself as gentle, receptive, and strong. His missions are erotic creation, connection, and service. Dex is trained in respiratory therapy which compliments his many years spent teaching yoga and movement to create a holistic somatic experience of pleasure, insight, and joy. His work as a creator and companion is founded in a pursuit to experience and give breathe to a more holistic approach to sex work, performing, and services. He believes wholeheartedly that sexuality and spirituality need not be perceived as mutually exclusive. On the contrary, they compliment each other beautifully; and Dex is here to show you how. In his content you will find opportunities to be both aroused and informed: hopefully both. In his virtual and in-person services you will be introduced to a space of safety, empowerment, discovery, and passion.
Key Points: - Dex shares about his journey - What is sex work? - Experiences of a male sex worker - Erotic content creation - Alternative expressions of male sexuality - Discussing pornography - Advice for exploring your sexuality Relevant links: Dex’s website: https://www.mrdexparker.com/ On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Yuval Mann. Yuval is the founder of the Sensual Alchemy School of Integrated Sexuality, his personal sex and relationship coaching business which teaches people how to have epic sex and legendary love. During his twenties, Yuval carried a bag full of trauma, shame, and guilt around his sexuality and relating to women due to his upbringing in an extreme Jewish Orthodox community. After leaving that community, Yuval embarked on a long journey of discovery into letting go of that shame, the blockage, and everything that was holding him back from making love with himself, women, and the world. Yuval and I chat about his experiences with Orthodox Judaism and how his relationship with God has impacted his sexuality. We also discuss ways of overcoming sexual blockages and how sex coaching for single men can be a transformative process.
Key Points: Yuval talks about his life journey Orthodox Judaism and sexuality Relationship with God Defining sacredness Overcoming sexual blockages How transformation happens Push vs Pull “Good” stress and excitement Emotional regulation Working with single men Relevant Links: Yuval’s Instagram: @Yuvalmann.s On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dexter Kendrick, affectionately known as Dr. Dex by his clients. Dexter has been a practicing psychic/medium and astrologer since 2001. He has written horoscopes for newspaper, magazine copy, and been a regular guest on NuSpirit talk radio out of NYC since 2011. He has taught and published articles on psychic self-development and astrological understanding of our psychology. He has done research into personality studies at the University of Hartford, and offered astrological, tarot, and spiritual conversations on love and relationships for the public via private practice. He also does weekly LIVE Facebook psychic readings on his show “Love 911 Tarot” on Facebook and Instagram, coaching clients on love, sex, relationships, family, money, and career. As a medium, he also reconnects clients with loved ones who are dearly departed should they wish it.
Over the last 11 years as a doctor of spiritual 5 element acupuncture, Dexter has brought this evidence-based transformative healing technique to the Mediterranean and Northern Europe, the Middle East, South and Central America, Mexico, Canada, and the Caribbean. Using a results based philosophy, along with educational self-care techniques, Dexter enlightens and demonstrates to patients the powerful ability of their bodies and minds to change. He is currently lead supervising doctor of clinical acupuncture interns at the Maryland University of Integrative Health, where he also serves as adjunct faculty and senate member. Dexter and I talk about his work with men as an acupuncturist and practitioner of Natural Medicine. We discuss men’s health and share some advice about how to improve your own wellbeing. We also explore some of Dexter’s journey with mediumship. Key Points: Dexter introduces himself Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine Penis heath Fertility and conception Changing your diet for sexual health Prostate health Mediumship and sexuality Telling people about their future Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man Relevant Links: Dexter’s Facebook: @love911tarot Dexter’s Instagram: @love911tarot On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Lauren White, a woman on a mission to help people feel sexually confident. Originally from Denver, Colorado, Lauren moved to San Diego in 2011 to pursue an M.A. in Communication. At the age of 23, she became an adjunct professor, teaching at colleges and correctional facilities in San Diego. During her time as a professor, she recognized a need for real conversations about sex and sexuality. Identifying as a sexually curious person, and having a feminist studies background, Lauren left her position in the college classroom to pursue teaching to a global classroom. She prides herself on being very relatable, funny, and passionate during conversations that may normally be categorized as awkward with both men and women. When she is not having or talking about sex, Lauren in an ardent explorer, having visited over 20 countries, and 42 U.S. States. She once sold all of her belongings and moved into a custom built van in the pursuit of uncharted adventure. She’s a bit of an adrenaline junkie, dances her heart out, and has a uniquely close relationship with her family. Lauren and I talk about what it means to be sexually confident and how you too can embody sexual confidence. I also ask her about what we can do to help boost our partner’s sexual confidence.
Key Points: - Lauren shares the evolution of her message - What does it mean to be sexually confident? - The way we talk about masturbation and sex - The problem with being “good in bed” - Embodying your pleasure - Learning to communicate - Comfortability and sexual confidence - Your body is a playground - Advice for women - Advice for men Relevant links: Lauren’s Instagram: @shewolflauren The Sex Den’s Instagram: @thesexden On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Asa Baav, the founder of Tailor Matched - a nationwide thought leader in romantic and sexual compatibility in the UK. As a matchmaker, coach and speaker Asa is on a mission to remove taboo from sexual desires and create the freedom to own your wants and needs in life and in the bedroom. The two of us talk about her matchmaking agency and how it all came about. Asa shares about her approach to matchmaking and the stigmas surrounding online dating services. Key points: - Asa shares about her agency, Tailor Matched - Matchmaking vs Coaching - What is sexual compatibility? - Collecting information about our sexual desires - Approaching conversations about sexual function - Dating: Don’t waste your time - Who is using matchmaking services? - Expanding the dating pool - The stigma of using a matchmaking service - Emphasizing connection over appearance Relevant links: Tailor Matched’s Instagram: @tailormatched Asa’s Instagram: @coachwithasa On The Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Shaft Uddin, a Speaker, Coach and a Somatic Trauma Release Therapist and Content Creator. Shaft has helped men and women from all walks of life overcome trauma by connecting them back to themselves. He creates safe spaces for people to connect with themselves and others through retreats and workshops all over the world. Shaft broke free from his strict devout Muslim upbringing of working in an Indian restaurant and forced arrange marriages and made his own way through life from being homeless to becoming a successful Art Director. 6 years ago he left his house and 6 figure salary in London to pursue the spiritual path. He turned his tragic story, mental illness, broken relationships and addiction into his super powers and turned it into a successful business to help others. The thing that healed him became his passion. His work and viral videos have reached over 38.7 million people via social media and various other media outlets including the BBC, Vice, Times magazine, The Guardian and many more. Shaft also consults for major brands such as Samsung, Mercedes and Disney in creating content. Shaft's mission is to make Stockholm the epicentre of connection and intimacy... the opposite of what it is right now! We talk about Shaft’s personal experiences with Tantra and his advice for achieving multiple orgasms.
Key Points: Shaft introduces himself as the “Wim Hof of Tantra” Portraying Tantra in the mainstream media Living in the Tantra bubble Lineages and finding your own path Shaft’s personal daily practice What is an injaculation? Conscious ejaculation and consecration Ejaculation shaming and non-ejaculatory orgasm What does a non-ejaculatory orgasm feel like? Researching multiple orgasms for men “I love my life, I love my body, I love myself” Relevant Links: Shaft’s Instagram: @shaftuddin Shaft’s YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/shaftuddin/ Shaft’s Website: www.sacredsexualawakening.com |
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam FraserThe intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men, "Men, Sex & Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure. Archives
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